Gift Ideas for Preteens: Community Moms Share Their Favorite Picks for 2024

Written by Heather Anderson

Ever wondered what’s on a preteen’s wishlist this year? The Mamahood has you covered! When one member asked for gift ideas for her preteen daughter, moms in our forum shared a variety of gift ideas that their preteens love, ranging from trendy perfumes to fun experiences the whole family can enjoy. Here are some top recommendations and insights directly from real moms who know what preteens are excited about this season.

Perfumes and Body Care: Trendy and Popular Among Preteens

Several moms noted the popularity of Sol de Janeiro perfumes as a hit among preteens, with one mom saying, “It actually smells really good and isn't too pricey!” -K.K.C., Mamahood Member The small, travel-friendly sizes make these perfect for backpacks or as gifts. Preteens also love body scrubs, Uggs, and other body care products to start building their self-care routines.

"Honestly, some stuff from Bath & Body Works or Bed Bath & Beyond (candles, lotions, perfumes, cute hand sanitizers, etc.). You could also give them some pretty lip glosses or lip balms (from cheaper brands), small makeup items (mascara, concealer, not too much if you'd like), or gift cards to Starbucks. But then again, it depends on what your daughter likes. If she's into more girly stuff, this would work." –K.N., Mamahood Member

For those with preteens interested in skincare, Bubble and Laneige skincare products were also frequently mentioned.

Tech Gadgets and Experiences

Gift ideas go beyond physical items, too! A few moms in the community are focusing on experiences over stuff, choosing instead to create memories through family trips and fun activities like D&D days or family hikes. One mom shared her idea of having a special jar for each child to write down a wish, pulling one out periodically for family activities.

For tech-savvy preteens, some moms suggested digital cameras for photo-loving kids, laptops, and Beats headphones to enhance their favorite hobbies.

"This year, we're focusing on experiences as a family instead of stuff. In the past, we've done family trips to Vegas and Monterey. This year, there's talk of taking Caltrain to the city for lunch in Chinatown, maybe doing a D&D day during the break, and/or hiking somewhere beautiful. I was thinking of having them write down a wish or two in a special jar and pulling one out every couple of days." -K. G., Mamahood Member

Trendy Fashion and Accessories

Keeping up with the latest trends, preteens are also looking for Squishmallows, Jellycat plushies, and Converse sneakers. For those who love accessorizing, candles, lip gloss, and clear mascara make for fun, easy gifts.

One mom recommended keeping an eye out for cute hand sanitizers and stocking stuffers like pastel-colored highlighters or new hair brushes, adding a bit of personalization and fun to their gifts.

Creative and Educational Gift Ideas

For preteens who love to create, craft kits, art supplies, and books like the Wings of Fire series were popular recommendations. Another mom suggested a Polaroid camera for capturing memories, and some suggested gifting a library card or a cookbook to encourage independence and exploration.

"A library card, if she doesn’t already have one, could give her a little independence. Camping gear, a skateboard or electric scooter, a bike, her own cookbook, a copy of Our Bodies, Ourselves, or even a small toolkit—if she’s shown interest in what her dad is doing—are great ideas. A musical instrument might also be a good option." -L.V., Mamahood Member

These thoughtful suggestions from our mom community highlight just how many ways there are to make this holiday season special for your preteen. From body care products and cute accessories to tech gadgets and family experiences, you’re sure to find something that fits your child’s interests.

Want to see more ideas or join the conversation? If you’re a mom in the San Francisco Bay Area, click here to read the full forum thread or join our The Mamahood - SF Bay Area community here to connect with other moms and get access to more helpful discussions like this one!